On a first date when they ask you what do you do?

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Klint
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On a first date when they ask you what do you do?

Post by Klint » May 20th, 2021, 2:48 pm

I'm back in the dating scene and not sure how to explain what I do to a woman on our first date, what do you suggest.



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Post by Colmike7 » May 20th, 2021, 4:13 pm

Usually I'll say that I'm a webmaster, then later I bring up that it's in the adult industry. But, a few times when I bring it up, the girl says something like "Oh cool, you're a porn star?".. lol



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Post by TheButcher » May 20th, 2021, 4:57 pm

Hard to say because when I was single I was not in adult.



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Post by bill » May 20th, 2021, 6:09 pm

just be honest - unless you don't want to have a 2nd date and you're only in it to get lucky



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Post by unicams » May 21st, 2021, 7:34 am

Internet sales is how I label my business, not a lie in anyway and I leave it at that. If they ask what I tell them it has been a long day how about we talk about you. It has worked ok for me on dates.


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Post by fappmaster » May 22nd, 2021, 10:01 pm

I come out and say it why find out you like her and she likes you then she has a problem with your work. Screw that I am who i am and no tricks here.



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Post by razor » May 23rd, 2021, 3:18 pm

Web based sales, it's true and honest.



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Post by AussieSpeedoGuy » May 23rd, 2021, 10:55 pm

G'day guys,

This is a fun topic and I've had some different experiences. Usually when being introduced I say I'm a 'computer nerd', if they want specifics I talk server admin or database talk and their eyes quickly glaze over and don't ask any further questions.

Once a few years ago I was hanging out with an old friend in San Francisco. This guy and I do some mainstream business together and we talk shop and he knows exactly what my business is in porn. We went out for dinner and his wife lined me up with one of her friends as my 'date' . Sitting around and my date asks what I do. I was about to give my usual answer when my mate chimes in and says "Dave, runs gay porn sites."

I was a little taken back but not offended in any way. Turned out to be a great conversation starter and we had a hoot with it. Four us ended up at the Lookout (famous gay nightclub in San Fran) and the jokes were all about how I had to get the bill because they were 'my people' and it was great fun. Pre-covid I'd spend maybe a month over the year in San Fran with my mate and my 'date' is now my usual 'date' when I'm in the city and she thinks it is great and introduces me as the 'gay porn guy'.

Over the years I have been pretty discrete no there isn't much (if anything) publicly connecting me to my porn business. I'd still like to keep it that way, never know what my business future holds in store.

Dave


I run a nice little group of sites. www.SpeedoFetish.com (main pay site), www.AussieSpeedoGuy.org (members blog site), GayMoviesPage.com (non-monetized tube site) and www.BisexualDave.com (members blog site).

Been in the industry since 2001 so something must be working since the bills are paid.

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Post by LuKenGas » May 24th, 2021, 7:36 am

AussieSpeedoGuy wrote:
May 23rd, 2021, 10:55 pm
Usually when being introduced I say I'm a 'computer nerd', if they want specifics I talk server admin or database talk and their eyes quickly glaze over and don't ask any further questions.

Got to try that line it's cool and funny if they only knew what I really did rofl.



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Post by CamLuCy » May 25th, 2021, 10:05 am

I am a webcam actress guys love that one



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Post by calista » May 26th, 2021, 7:28 am

I tell them what i do if they don't like it tough for them.



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Post by pornmafia » May 27th, 2021, 7:32 am

calista wrote:
May 26th, 2021, 7:28 am
I tell them what i do if they don't like it tough for them.

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Post by Jag » May 28th, 2021, 7:45 am

years back when I met my hubby, we started talking about work and my reply to what do you do was I am working in online marketing.He is an engineer and was not much an internet person 24 years ago so it was easy to skirt around the adult issue on the first date.


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Post by JPDomains » May 28th, 2021, 7:22 pm

Domain investor slash broker. The part about adult sales I skip.



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Post by wetnwild » May 29th, 2021, 4:49 pm

I have a home based business.



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